Wednesday, June 24, 2009

do you ever cry in church?



I ask this question not to see how many church-goers read my ezine but to share how often I get emotional when I am touched. (My husband Ben would argue that this happens with a good commercial - true! - but regardless, I still say an open heart is better than a closed one however much ribbing you get).

But I digress.

So on Sunday I am sitting in church and they play this video that absolutely wrecked me. So much so I just had to share it with you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MIJShOqh8Q

Here's what that struck me as I watched this.

How many men think about the legacy then are going to leave behind?

Frankly, it is easy for all of us to get caught up in the "before I die I will.." kind of thinking.
And we figure we have at least until we are 70 or 80 to "get on it".

But the truth is, we can leave a legacy every day.


With every person we speak to.
With every child we meet.
Every day.

Leave an imprint.
Or let the moment slip away.


I am grateful for Hallmark and designated days because, like on Sunday, it invites me to think about Father's. My own, my husband and all the men I know who are fearless warriors dedicated to making the world a better place because they choose to be men of impact.

And my prayer is that these kind of men come alongside my own son and breath greatness into him.

Ready for inspired action?

I know many of you in my conscious community are women so I encourage you to do two things:

1.) Tell at least one man today what you appreciate about him (appreciation grows greatness)
and
2.)share this video it with men you know have a warrior in them.

To courage and men at cause,

Beth Hanishewski
Coach. Speaker. Author.
Mindset Coaching Inc.

http://www.inspiredhabits.com/

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Do you know what people fight about in the summer?



I heard an interesting statistic today on the radio this morning.
Apparently 25% of couples who live together fight about one thing in the summer more than anything else.

Can you guess?
It's not vacations, money, packing, parties or pets.

Couples fight about mowing the lawn.



That it needs to get mowed.
Who is going to mow it.
How it gets mowed.
Whatever, 25% feel it is fight-worthy.

Regardless about whether mowing the lawn is an issue in your house it raises an interesting question:

What IS fight-worthy?

Kids?
Money?
Sex?
Chores?
Hurt feelings?

The truth is we all get upset about things. Big things and little things. And depending on the day (some might argue the day of the month) we might find ourselves in a fight with the person we live with.

And personally I do not think that is necessarily bad.
I actually thinks fights can be kind of good.
They clear the air.
They allow for expression.
The are honest.

All good things.

Because as my clients and workshop participants have heard me say oh so many times, conflict is not the killer of relationships.

It is apathy.

I believe the measure of a relationship lies not in whether you fight
but in the quality and speed of how you make up.

Personally I am a fan of the eight-second fight.
Or when you are really mad, eight minutes.
Any longer than that, the fight is no longer about the lawn.

Ready for a little summer solstice challenge?
How quickly can you make up with the people you are upset with?

Send me your best strategies and I will compile a list of the best-of techniques so we can all enjoy the people we are hanging with at the beach a whole lot easier!

To 8 second turn-arounds,

Beth Hanishewski
Coach. Speaker. Author.
Mindset Coaching Inc.
http://www.inspiredhabits.com/

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Are you ready to live happily ever after?


You can.
Spend the day
with Life Coach Beth
Hanishewski and learn the
5 secrets to living
happily ever after.
Yep. Real strategies for
your world that includes
kids, dogs, in-laws, work,
stress and “stuff” that just
seems to get in the way.


In just 6 hours you will learn...

  • What “type” you are and what brings out the best/worst in you (and others!)
  • How to have “level three” relationships and keep it there.
  • How to prevent the biggest killer of relationships (it is not what you think!)
  • How to have authentic conversations that create connection (even tough ones!)
  • Practical tools to take your relationships from ho-hum to YUM!
  • And have fun doing it all!
Who should come?
If you know, live with, have dated, married,
divorced or work with a member of the opposite
sex then...this workshop is for you!

Reserve your spot today!
Email Tracy to register,
inspiredva@gmail.com
and click 'Buy Now' below
to "Live Happily Ever After!"

Hope to see you there!

Date: Sunday June 14th, 2009
Time: 10:00 am - 4:00 pm
Location: Waterscapes - “Cascade Club”
1099 Sunset Drive
Map with "get directions" option



Just $249 for one person
or $349 for two!
(singles and couples welcome!)







I choose to live happily ever after!






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